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Old Aug 30, 2017, 11:54 AM
leejosepho leejosepho is offline
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Originally Posted by rukspc View Post
... We had a talk recently because he has had second thoughts about going. His reasoning is financial circumstances, selling his things, losing his apartment (which is in a good location, good price) and the chance that there will be more strain if we go together and he has nothing to do for work... He is a photographer, filmmaker and graphic artist and owns a business. He understands the difficulty of adjusting to life in another country and would rather me choose whether I want to go...
I think he, not you, is the one with a choice to make. He can choose his things and his apartment or he can choose to adjust his own life to fit the relationship the two of you seem to want to have together.
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