Thanks Jennifer. I don't mean to make my girlfriend look bad. She always told me when we started dating that her daughter was the most important person in her life and it sure looked that way. And she was a good mom. But she seems to have a lot of physical problems, and she's has gotten crankier and her daughter is usually the target. Because of my girlfriend's health problems, I was the one who went with her daughter to school plays and activities in high school, we ended up spending a lot of time together and I love her like my own daughter. I tell my girlfriend how lucky she is to have a wonderful daughter like that, but...

Recently my girlfriend has been very sick, for months. her daughter and I both have been trying to take care of her, before she was hospitalized 2 weeks ago. It seems there's nothing physically wrong with her. So her daughter thinks she's been faking all this time and is very angry. But my girlfriend has developed psychosis and is being held in the mental ward, so I think the symptoms are real. She's getting treatment, but my big fear now is her daughter, this is horrible for her. She won't talk about it, and I don't know how to help her. I'm afraid of pushing her away if I insist.

Sorry this is so long.