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Originally Posted by Hummingbird1
I have a sweet boyfriend, The problem is that he has a addiction problem and is selfish in certain ways, For instance if there is a show on he falls asleep and says he is ready for bed and as soon as I am heading to bed with him, He suddenly changes his mind and asks where the remote is, So I get up a few hours later and hes sleeping on the couch watching heavy metal videos or some movie opposite of what we were watching together, I do love him and he is a sweet heart, Please dont think he is a bad guy because he is not, He just has some selfish ways about him that are really bothering me and getting on my nerves, I just need to vent and talk about this to feel better, He quit drinking, Which I am very proud of, But he has to over indulge in other things, I am not getting into all of it, I am very proud he quit drinking, Whats wrong with me, Every relationship isnt perfect and he is the sweetest and most lovable, Except for his addictive side
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Well, no relationship is perfect. I think it's great he managed to quit his drinking addiction. It means he's aware of his imperfections and is willing to improve himself.
It has to be a combination of improving each other and with that, compromising. Because in order to truly love something, you also have to accept it for what it is. Otherwise, you wouldn't truly love it.