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Originally Posted by Turtle_Rider
Hello. I care about you too.
I'm sorry that you feel ignored. I'm sorry to say this too. I see your posts a lot, I read your thoughts. I mostly don't reply because.. honestly you're type that can't take criticism well. When you disagree, you'll bite. That's why I prefer to stay silent, unless it is the posts that I can agree with your opinion.
I understand when you're like this, you're under heavy pressure. I don't mind to listen to your rant, only please don't bite. Maybe you're don't like our opinion, yeah everyone have different perspective. It's up to you to accept it or not. But we mean no harm, you don't have to fight back.
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You're right. I don't handle criticism well at all; especially from people on the internet who know very little about me personally. I take the criticism that I receive here as personal attacks on myself as a person or judgements directed towards me. I don't meant to be like this; I just am.
Honestly, I've been told in the past that I am rather intimidating. I am a direct, to the point type person IRL who doesn't sugar coat things and doesn't believe in small talk. I tell things like they are and I don't take people's feelings into consideration. In fact, I used to have a saying: "I ain't a therapist so it isn't my job to care about your feelings". This personality of mine combined for my penchant towards wearing all black and always having a stoic look on my face might be off putting to people... IDK
Regardless, I will try to do better. I can't make any promises that I will be successful because when I get into one of my moods, I don't hold back. It's hard for me to change on my own with nobody to guide me so we will see what happens.
No promises.