I agree with Jennifer's wise advice. How soon do you need to decide?
If you do a written pros and cons, and i hope that you do, one thing I wonder about is whether the time abroad has to be one year. Maybe there would be an option to go somewhere abroad for, say, six months?
Another thing that would be well worth weighing, I think, is the relatively short time that you have been in an actual relationship with him. You sound taken with him and strongly tempted to say that you believe he is the one for you. However, the
actual confirmation of such a belief occurs over time, not at once or in a few months.
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He wants me to know that it would be extremely difficult to stay together if we had to do long distance.
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This may not be an ultimatum, but it is getting close to one. What if he did give you an ultimatum?
Do take your time, as much time as you need (if possible), to come to peace with this decision.