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Old Aug 31, 2017, 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted by BayBrony View Post
Sorry I missed where that quote is from? I would like to read it. That is practically verbatim what my T is doing ( or was doing. We are on hiatus due to her being quite ill). If it's any solace there ARE Ts like mine who can handle the attachment issues with gentleness and love
Very happy for you! And glad you found one! But I tried so many, and they don't come with a guarantee, and when therapy fails it leaves you more broken, for awhile at least, plus poorer and feeling more used and taken and discarded.

It would be great, I think, if some of the "good" or competent ones, including Dr. Smith perhaps, could begin to recognize the harm done by the ones who are still too damaged internally themselves. Calling it a "bad fit" or blaming it on inadequate supervision or consultation is -- well, to my mind -- insane. When, if ever, will a client find a good one? The professionals are overlooking a lot of contrary evidence I suspect. But who's counting?
Hugs from:
Anastasia~
Thanks for this!
Anastasia~, koru_kiwi