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Old Aug 31, 2017, 08:10 AM
Anonymous40643
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This is a tough one.. if it were me, I would still want to go, despite the political instability and despite the relationship, but I would want to make sure I would be safe. Would you be safe? And unless he puts a ring on your finger, I would not stay for him. That is giving up a dream, the chance of a lifetime, for something that may/may not work out long-term, even though you believe it will. He could visit you, and you could visit him... at least a couple times, right? Someone also mentioned can you just go for six months, which may be easier on the relationship. I think that's a good idea. I also agree with the others to take your time with this & weight the pros and cons. You've got many months before it's May. It is not an easy decision, so I hope whatever direction you choose, that it is the right and best decision FOR YOU and that you feel right about it in your heart and mind. ((((Hugs))))
Thanks for this!
Bill3, rukspc