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Originally Posted by divine1966
He told you he doesn't love you. I think honestly after that I'd see no point to keep seeking him. I think in the future when you meet someone don't have sex right away. Get to know them first. Sex can wait. If he doesn't want to wait then he is wrong for you. I think you will eventually have serious relationdjips but you need to stop making it about sex. Get to know people. And often if relationship starts in bed, that's where it stays.
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hy divine, thank you for your answer! i didnt have sex with him right away, we dated about a month and a half before the first kiss! which all my friends were amazed of how long it took. and i dont expect also from my self to love someone so fast. i am not in love with him yet, but i do want to get to know him, and see if feelings can develop. do you know poeple nowadays that wait for a love decleration before going to bed???