Maybe instead of seeing men, perhaps getting into a group that goes out and does things or have coffee might be a better option? Maybe there's a group on Meet-up where you can meet others and be in a safe environment might be a better idea? I usually find that most people who answer Craigslist ads tend to want a sexual relationship eventually, and might be answering thinking they can change your mind.

Unless eventually you do want a relationship that includes sexual intimacy. You may be having to kiss a lot of toads to get what you need and may be triggering.

This is only my experience, and you know what you can handle. Just throwing some ideas out there that might be more manageable if you start to have a mania.