No arguments here Mouse. I'm not averse to growth though, I've just found so few therapist (one) who has facilitated growth. Searching for the first one with whom I could make progress took me fifty years. I can say with confidence that I don't have another fifty years to find the next one.

It may be that she is correct, that she is actually mediocre as a therapist, and that it is my trust in her and the fact that we are such a good fit that makes this work so well.