Trust comes hard when the other person is lying, chronically lying. It's hard not to feel anger when the person who is supposed to be responsible for your general well being behaves in a manipulative manner. Neglect is a tangled web that one does not just unravel from.
So, you have bipolar, it happens. Many people learn to thrive and manage with it. I'm sorry that she's making it about her.

I hope you find solace from many of the boards, stories and members on this forum.

Welcome to PC.