Ya I know...but this go's for all men it seems I have learned, slaves or not , it is in similar context to some of the quotes about "controversial questions" and what they lead to IMO

Almost says the exact same thing to me as in Titus 3:9 about foolish controversies and what they lead to.

Whats it matter who it is told to if it has the same meaning??

Timothy 6:4 controversial questions

Titus 3:9 foolish controversies