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Originally Posted by momo975
I bet you anything i'm more miserable than you, it's not a competition but yeah i'm posting an issue of mine on a new thread
and no when someone says i like you, i dont love you, it's pretty normal... you 2 didnt spend a whole lot of time together and that's how things start out, you're comfortable, then u like the person, and then fall in love. he is just an honest guy telling you he isnt in love with you now... alot of guys would tell you they love you and what not just to get something out of you... so appreciate his honesty, or try to atleast
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im sorry to hear your struggling, i posted a comment on your thread.
offcourse i agree its normal to not yet be inlove, i also am not yet in love with him (i think). BUT saying that, like that so bluntly, means hes trying to sent a mesage through, sth like - dont get any hopes up... im NO expert, but i think when you have warm feelings to someone and your not yet in love, but you do aim for the feelings to grow and become deeper, you dont declair that! unless you want to scare the other person away... maybe its a cultural thing, he is german and he does tend to be over honest and direct in some moments- i do appriciate hes honesty. but he also knows very well to hide things he dosnt want me to know (like the facts that he smokes also tabaco, which he knows i hate the smell of. it took me 5 months to accidently find that out. which is no biggy, its a small white lie, who cares)..so you get my point, hes not a total naive...