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it is important to keep in mind that due to my upbringing, and lack of experience, I cannot emotionally fall for a girl who had been intimate with men. As little as hand job, or even feeling some guy's shlong makes me really uncomfortable and unwilling to go into a serious relationship. I will sound like a hypocrite especially that I do have a sexual life now, but will not truly fall for someone who has a past...
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In my view, you have two options.
1. Break up with her now because you cannot accept her; or
2. See (or continue to see) a therapist until you can accept her as she is.
If you choose option 2, please tell her that you are doing it.