I had a lot of resentment towards my mom for how she treated me when I was a child. I eventually (5 years into adulthood) realized that there was no point in holding on to it. I never talked about it with her, I just....I don't know. I wish I could remember how I let it go. It sucks holding onto resentment, especially when the other party isn't bothered by their actions. I hope you find a solution. I would continue talking about it in your group and in individual therapy. They may be able to offer solutions to letting go.

I think you're doing a great job and I'm so happy you made this decision!