thank you again for all your words and attention!
but what about the fact that he wanted without ANY doubt to commit to me??? and making vacation plans etc.. like i emphesize before, i have been for the first 4 month emotionaly kinda distant to him, and its dawned on me a bit unexpectedly that i actually do like him... ughhhh i feel like im trying to convince all of you (and myself) to be more tolerance. i also dont have high hopes. and it does for sure mean sth when he says i like you but dont love you..but its also very honest, which is a quality in him that i really admire..uffffffffff im going crazy