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Originally Posted by pifi
thank you bill, you do have a point, about not saying it. i would also not say it unlees i want the other to lower their expectations. but what confused me is that he did say i like you but .. AND that he did very surely and with no doubt wanted to commit too me!! and after that talk had ideas to vcations togather and etc... what do you think?
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People vacation together for plenty of reasons. Love and commitment aren't required for vacationing together. It doesn't have any deep meaning. It is just a vacation.
I have no idea why he proclaims commitment if he doesnt love you, doesn't know you well and frankly his main experience with you is just sex. People say and do strangest things. I don't see much point in analyzing this guy. He could mean 100 things by it or he might be just talking. Perhaps by commitment he means he will not sleep around. Who knows. But generally speaking a man who is serious about you and actually is committing will have way more going on than just sleeping together. He'd be asking you places and taking you to do things etc There will be a variety of experiences and he wouldn't rudely announced that he doesn't love you.
Usually analyzing people is pointless because you'll never find the answers. You can only analyze your own actions.