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Originally Posted by divine1966
Not sleeping with others is just common decency imho. Not necessarily a commitment. Plus he doesn't want to be referred as BF. It's not a commitment. And he is not over his ex.
So what exactly is going on now? Is he calling you daily? Wants to see you? You are going on dates? What's really happening?
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so what would you do call a commitment, at this stage?? no im on holidays since that "commitment talk", which we made 2 days before i left. hes not calling daily, but i keep waiting for his intiatives, he texted me a4 days after i left, than we skyped for 2 hours, and than texted the days after.. i waited for him intiate the next text, and it came after 5 days. asking how im doing informing me he past a driving test etc about his past days. this was yeday, and i didnt answer. im thinking what to do, i dont wanna give a "buisness as usual" atmosphere, but i DO not want to make the closer talk on skype, if i do decide to break up with him (which i probably will) i do want to make it as meaningful as possible, to get as honest feedback as possible from him, and to let him know that i was vulnruble infront of him for confessing about my "virginity" , and perhaps if i need some to do some appologising myself, bcs i know he gut hurt from me too.