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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
I don't see necessarily how therapy helps. In the end you will have to do all these things on your own. Perhaps they will be helpful but if they aren't... well just a waste of time. But if you feel like you need it maybe it would be a good thing to have someone to listen.
I am alone too. Parents dead. Brother thinks I am a mutant and I see him once per year. Wouldn't help me if I was tied to train tracks. Whatever I have to do, I just take it one step at a time and try to figure it out. No better feeling than getting it done without help or surprising yourself.
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That's the thing though: I am too busy to devote time to doing all of this on my own without somebody to guide me.
I am a full time college student, a part time employee, I am about to have my own corporation later this month (regardless if I go black hat or not I still will have the added responsibility of building and managing a business) which leaves me precious limited time to devote to self improvement.
So I need to prioritize: what is more important? Business knowledge, social skills, tech knowledge, dieting and exercise, learning how to connect with people, ETC. I also need to keep time reserved for my hobbies too because if I don't do that, my mental health would be a lot worse off since I would go crazy dealing with all of this responsibility.
The most logical solution that I can think of is to get help with some of this. I'm not expecting somebody to do it for me or hold my hand, however, it isn't realistic for me to do everything completely by myself.
Besides, I was looking at therapists in my area and I found one that would be perfect for me because she is also a life coach who deals with a lot of entrepreneurs and creative thinkers. If I could get over my transportation issues and see her or somebody similar, that would be ideal for me. Somebody who thinks a lot like me would be better suited to help guide me.