Open Eyes That was really helpful, yes I was a very introverted at 15... thank you for sharing your story too, it just showed me that this happens, humans can be driven by so many different things...you did open my eyes wide. specially that i illogically often thought "he couldn't have been normal" labeling him as some kind of monster, but like you mentioned; we're an intelligent species who often do odd things. Also thank you for reminding me that he didn't do this every time she went there, things could have been worse but at least he was this intelligent enough not to force her.. and by the way, he left her for another girl and didn't even let her know it was over

divine1966 Sorry Divine, i can feel your frustration at my mentality.. I don't know why it matters so much, yes it happened LONG TIME ago, many rights and wrongs have been made since then ... I don't know why i'm fixated on it, i guess like i mentioned above i just see him as a sexual predator - which is illogical - I know guys tend to send unsuspected nudes of themselves but damn... like the balls on this kid ... I often look at other guys and start questioning myself or judge them along the lines of "have they ever done anything like this ?" and i catch myself and say "why does it even matter, did they do it to you?"

ill try to let go, and just ignore the whole issue.. it happened nothing to be done. and I can't just look at people and think of their sexual past to try to gauge their values in my head

Artchic528 how is he not the problem if he did make her so uncomfortable and did it twice more while she was least expecting it ? she often said it was uncalled for, and weird, yeah it didn't make her think of the guy as a freak but that's how i see him, and that's my problem at a 100%