Hey colors, thanks for your thoughts. My children are older, teens and adult. They are great kids. I finally came clean and wrote a post about the whole thing also in general about privacy vs. need to share. It is so complicated. I have a few days off and I am going to take 1/2 of 1 day to catch up on the rest of my job and I am going to get outside and do SOMETHING. Even if it's mucking out horse stalls with my friend. Anyway, thanks for your support, means a lot.