SorryShaped, do you ever get frustrated by being told to let it go? I ask because I'm surrounded by people telling me that I need to do the same, and it's starting to make me feel like MORE of a failure, because it seems like such an impossible feat. What's worse is when the word "just" is thrown in. "Just let it go."

Oh, alright, I'll JUST let it go, willy-nilly. No problem!

Sorry, I don't mean to turn this into my own rant.