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Old Sep 02, 2017, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by mugwort2 View Post
I too think you are being too harsh on your ex girlfriend. Her being raped wasn't her fault. Being raped is never the victims fault. I say victim because I believe males can be raped too. Perhaps therapy, especially talk therapy would help you with your negative feelings toward this woman. Yes and learn to forgive.
I don't think she was raped. She was a virgin when they met. OP said that he is upset that when she was 15 she had a boyfriend or a friend, also 15, who showed her his penis. The fact that she saw it is disturbing for OP.