No, I havent worked thru all my unmet needs and feelings! Just said i worked thru feelings of wanting to be rescued. I separated childhood fantasies from adult expectations. He was good at helping me understand myself, my feelings, and i was good at being open, honest, letting it all pour out. Letting my walls down, facing ugly truths....but my core issues actually got worse over the course of treatment.

I just wonder if you'd have the same opinions if your t didnt show love for you repeatedly and demonstrate your worth and how much she cares.not so much the words, but perhaps she showed you that you were lovable? It may just be a different therapy world than many of us go thru.