Hey Mama not, we are oksy with food, I go to a small local grocer and called him early this week to set up a charge so we CAN eat. Clothes are also fine. We have friends who pass things around. It's silly but my daughter lost a pair of sports shorts for wrestling and my first thought was oh my I can't replace them! It is not life and death. The larger issues are with my spouse being threatened with jail and the fact that we have no money to buy meds and pay fines. The new deductible year is about to begin. Your love means a lot to me. It is with love that I reach to others as you did to me. Ha ha, a week ago I would have told you I desperately needed warm boots but my brother in law had hid 4 pairs of our boots and I found them Sunday. he is a little troubled. So now we all have warm feet. I have more then many. I was not meaning to complain in that way. it's just that when there are 0 dollars between you and a paycheck two weeks away, bills due, legal issues, it is overwhelming. Thanks for caring .