You know, I can fully relate to your sentiments on this. I, too, have been uncomfortable with it and used to be very upset over this issue myself. The truth of the matter is, yes, our partners may possibly get turned on by seeing a beautiful, naked movie star on TV. It's the nature of the male sex. They are highly visual and beauty and nudity appeals. But it honestly doesn't mean anything, even if they are turned on. You are the person that matters the most, what is in front of them in the flesh. Plus, there's love and caring involved, which goes way deeper than just physical attraction and sex. Something I've had to contend with myself is knowing that my love partner will be attracted to other women, and potentially frequently as there are thousands and millions of attractive women out there. The key is to be secure with yourself, to feel like a sexy goddess in your own right, and to be confident of his feelings and attraction for YOU. Otherwise, your partner wouldn't be with you if you were not attractive to him. So work on your own confidence, which I know takes time and can be hard to do, but in time, the more confident and secure you feel with yourself, the less these things will bother you. Attractions to other people are just a fact of life or a part of human nature that we must acknowledge and be aware of, but not feel truly threatened by. Hope this helps a little. ((((Hugs)))))