Thanks starrysky - having zero replies does hurt. I'm sorry it happened to you. Sometimes people just don't know what to say and so say nothing, I'm sure you know that already, but if others receive 20 replies it can feel... uncomfortable It does make someone feel unappreciated but you are worthy of a response and so am I I have anxiety and social anxiety amongst other things so these things hurt and bring back memories which are sub optimal. But actually I do think pc is a supportive place for the most part. I value your presence too