Hugs...that's so much you're dealing with at once. Quitting the job definitely sounds like it was the right choice. One thought is to check into caregiver support groups--hospitals and hospices sometimes run them. Not the same as an individual T, but you could at least talk to some other people who understand. And it could be worth asking your dad's primary care doctor if he has any recommendations for Ts. Hope you're able to find someone soon.