It sounds like you need to complain to them directly. When we keep negative thoughts inside, it hurts our relationships in the long run. If they are vicious when you tell them how you feel then they may be part of the cause of your depression. In close relationships, we rarely see eye to eye with people we love 100%. Maybe you just have trouble with confrontations like I do and that is part of your problem. Some people do not take criticism well. That is not right either....