So all you out there divorced already, can you give me any advice on what life is going to be like through this divorce process. He keeps telling me that he wants to be friends, like I can really be friends with a man that treated me like he did? No, I can't be friends, but I hate that he threw away our friendship because he didn't care. I want to go out and meet other people, yet I can't because I need to deal with all of this pent up anger and he's off having the time of his life while I sit here and mourn the loss of my friendship with him. What the heck am I doing to myself?