So, an update...the relationship part is fine, although I do still feel very lonely. This has pretty much destroyed our sex life though. At least for me; he's probably fine. Since we have so few opportunities now it pretty much means there will be pressure to do it when the opportunity comes up. I can't do it if there's any amount of pressure or planning involved.

I'm not really sure what to unless I just take care of him and not let him reciprocate or just be completely abstinent.