I'm just 20 and still a student, I've never had a job yet and I can't hold myself to get a driver's license (in my country you can't get it until you're 18, so I'm 2 years "late"). I feel really worried about the future because I would like the future me to have a job and be successful in it and also becoming a mom, but if my future self happens to be like my present self, then I would be found crying everyday and having breakouts.
I'm so terrified of this happening... My classes already stress me out so imagine having more responsibilies

I don't know how other people do it. But I have to say that my parents look to be really dissatisfied and my father has always gotten angry for anything and my mom always told me "he's just tired after coming from work" and when I say always, I really mean ALWAYS. My parents have been terrible examples yet when I get to my boyfriend's house, everything's clean, they're pretty chill and enthusiastic. These are the types that make you think "how do they do it?"
And if it wasn't because of my bf's parents and even my uncles (also chill people), I would have thought that being an adult= being always sad and stressed. But it all depends in the person!