Heidu, I agree with the others, I think you are really great! Maybe these ladies feel that they are not as smart as you or something, but it is totally their loss if they don't make the effort to contact you. I have had some "friends" who have been like those that you describe, and in the end they are often not worth it. So many people are just too wrapped up in their lives to be considerate I suppose. Sorry I'm not much help, but I wanted you to know I'm thinking of you.

Love and hugs,
Fuzzy
xxx