I think that is probably right.

I don't know anyone who truly "does it all" they are always sort of robbing peter to pay paul. I work 40 hours a week but I could not imagine dating or having kids. There is just too much work to do all of that and work 40 hours a week. My sister would tell you she works but truth is, she can't really keep up with working. Her husband works 40 hours a week but she usually can only keep a job like 6 months or so followed by 27 weeks or longer unemployment. Also, though they only have one kid BIL's mom takes care of him for a lot of the day.

I find their lives to be unadulterated hell. Pretty sure she hasn't had sex with her husband in years and pretty much just tolerates him for the kid and both have long given up any fun of their own and pretty much just do what the kid wants in their off hours.