So my T emailed me this morning:
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I'm so sorry you weren't told the way you guys envisioned. Family can be so frustrating, but try to evaluate the importance of maintaining a relationship with them. And try to be patient. If it's really important to have a relationship with your sister and the baby, then maybe it's best to let this go as much as you can. And maybe just have some patience until a better time to address your frustration with the situation. Right now isn't a good time. She just had a baby and her hormones are going to be all over the place for several months. Soon they'll be able to get out of the house and [your fiance] will be able to hold her. And try to remember that you are on your own path to becoming a mother and that's even better!
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She's right. The baby is more important than my stupid family. So I texted my sister apologizing, but explaining that I was hurt. I asked if we could come over Friday to see them. I tried to vribe her with food...lol. Now just waiting for a reply.
I'm calmer today, but still really hurt. My fiance is super tired because he had nightmares about all of this all night. I woke up every couple hours dreaming about being forgotten.