What is life going to be like after your divorce? Only you can answer that one. I can tell you how I have felt and feel. It is a loss. Like the loss of a loved one, only they are still alive and for some reason they dont like you anymore. I was married for 10 years.

Its been a little over a year now and it still hurts. I am still sad at times and miss the good moments we shared and our pets. (I did'nt get visitation rights).

I think mourning is a good thing as long as its not long term. For you, at least it was not a long period of time. Good luck think good thoughts and be good to yourself.

Joe