So, I have a dilemma. I really like this guy I've been talking to who lives in Hungary. We've been friends for a few years, off and on, but then he came out and admitted he's had a thing for me for a while and I feel the same way. So we're seeing how it'll turn out.

However, about a week or so ago, when I really wasn't feeling it with him, I started I sort of started talking to this guy on Match.com. He sent me a message and I replied, and well it's not anywhere yet, I just am sort of..."meh" about it for now. I have yet to respond to his last two messages. One of which was just now.

However, something happened, a switch sort of turned on and now I really started feeling a lot of feelings toward the Hungarian guy. We've been through so much together, he and I, and it really does brighten my day when we talk to each other. I can sort of see us meeting IRL some day and really hitting it off.

I hate being in this sort of situation, mostly because I hate saying "no" to a potential guy, and hate hurting feelings. What should I do?