Since you are not yet committed to the Hungarian, you are long distance "feeling it out" and haven't met in person yet, my suggestion is to keep your options open if there is an interest in exploring others. People do this all the time - multi-date. There is no rule that you must commit when you haven't even met the person yet, and I wouldn't suggest doing so either. Something caused you to get on Match.com. Perhaps think about why you wanted to do that. It seemed you wanted to be open to others and you weren't feeling it for the Hungarian. Perhaps you have some mixed feelings?

I would suggest meeting the Hungarian in person first, see what he is like in person and how the chemistry is, then decide. Even then, you don't have to commit. Long distance relationships are tricky, but can work.. but you don't have to commit after just one meeting.

Also, don't worry about the Match.com guy's feelings. Online dating is full of rejection, and that's just the nature of it. People who online date expect rejection, and they simply move onto the next.. there's plenty more in the sea for him, so don't worry about him. ((((Hugs)))))