After my ex went through all my letters and journals over the course of about 30 years, I question if I've ever been loved or know what it really is. She made me question that, trying to get in and muck about yet again. I gave it to her: "you're right, I probably never did. I don't think I've ever known true love. Feel better about it now that you got the your answer?" and didn't answer her messages or calls for weeks after.