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Originally Posted by DP_2017
I don't need to feel close to him, In fact, I tried to fight it at all costs.. but it happened. Apparently its common. It scares me feeling close to anyone. I am also at times feeling like pushing him away but that wont help me much
doesn't help much knowing that its normal to lose people. I'm tired of losing people. I guess I just wish I knew if it was worth bothering with ppl anymore or if they all are gonna leave me. This is why I prefer dogs
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It's really hard losing ppl, I can empathize, and you've lost several, so I understand.
I guess what I was trying to point out is that it happens in life and is something we must learn how to accept, somehow. And with age, maturity and wisdom, we can learn over time how to accept this fact and nature of life.
Many ppl do prefer animals for just that reason. I understand how it scares you to be close to ppl for fear of losing them, but I guess just consider whether it's worth it or not to get close to people. Friendships contribute to one's overall happiness, and isolation is far worse.
I would continue to explore and talk about this with your therapist and maybe you can come to some sort of resolution. (((hugs))