I don't think anyone is judging you, cielpur. My guess is that people read your posts and feel bad for you, but are just not sure what to say. I really feel bad for you that you've been treated that way by so-called 'friends.' I haven't really had a situation like that come up for me on Facebook. The closest example I've experienced is with a woman I consider to be an extremely close friend behaving much more warmly and with more care to other friends of hers, and sort-of ignoring me. It's very hurtful, but I also take into account that it has little to do with me and a lot to do with her.