oh Alex, i remember how upset you were about some emails. You're absolutely right to be angry about it. i know i would be very taken back by sudden imposition of limits that had never been needed before. WHenever T suggests that he doesn't want me to escalate a "clinging" behaviour now i call him on it... yes, i have had such behaviours but they have **never** escalated, they plateau and then fade.

but sometimes it's a routine for them, and they dont really stop and think - which they should, but i understand how repetitive patterns go. Of course, that hurts too because we then have to think about the fact that we aren't the only client or the only one which presents certain problems... maybe 7/10 clients need that limit. i am SURE he knows you and who you are, but maybe he just did what he does 7/10 times.

as far as the emails themselves? yeah, he sucks donkey butt.

wish it was better... do what is right for you..