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Originally Posted by bukowski06
I think it depends on the person who is delivering the criticism or rejection. How much do you value that person's opinion? Criticism or rejection are based on a person's subjective opinion or their perception of your abilities and in now ways indicates fact.
Once I figured that it's been a lot easier to accept criticism or rejection.
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Well, today it came rapid fire from 3 people. All negative, (not here on this forum) from folks I was looking for some support from. Other days, of late, it has come from the same place, but from different people there. I don't know if it is me, if I am expecting too much from people, or what. However, it had been a place where I could pretty well expect to receive support in the past and have been receiving it for quite some time (like about 5 years). So I am disappointed and confused too.
I'm just not sure what to do, but I am thinking of staying away from there for awhile, if not forever. Over the last many months there, things have gotten less and less supportive, less understanding and in general, for me, much more uncomfortable.