A lady with a chain saw. That is not one of my sexual fantasies.

Yeah, I do get what you mean. The happy medium is hard to figure out. Mostly these labels are just for people to get a general idea WTH they are dealing with or who they are getting involved with. They need some agreed upon terms/conventions. I do identify more with my bipolar disorder than the attention deficit; I never post in that forum. And while I am maybe "on the spectrum" because I blurt and have trouble with social taboos, that doesn't feel like it is the root cause.