I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say and asking. I was asking for clarification to understand where your idea that everything is being labeled a pathology is coming from. I'm sorry you feel dumped on, it was not my intention. I was just stating how I feel and see things which is what you were doing. I'm going to try not to take your reaction too personally and I hope you can do the same with my post. If not, I'm sorry my honesty upset you.