Agreed with lolagrace, not working nights or weekends isn't necessarily laziness. She may have family or other obligations she's attending to. Or possibly she just doesn't like working nights or weekends and has enough weekday clients that she can afford to limit her hours that way.

I used to spend a lot of time interpreting things that people said to me or their mannerisms etc. But I have to say I'm with your T on this one, I think it's kind of a waste of time. You can't know everything that influences another person's behavior and the only way to really find out is to ask. I have been learning to take people at face value and it really makes life a lot easier.

The third thing, I guess I'd have to know the context. I would say it's good to recognize limits and choose your battles accordingly. But it would be annoying to be told to give up on something you want and consider important.

On the other hand, you've posted multiple times about the faults you find in this therapist, so maybe it's time to look for a new one who will be a better fit for you.