What therapists want more than anything is honesty and to know what's going on inside of us. That's the only way they can possibly help. Your therapist is hurting *for* you, no doubt, but is probably incredibly glad you shared your inner life with her. It's an honor for her, if you think about, to be trusted in this way. So I don't see why you should interpret this as "hurting" her. If anything, you have *helped* her by letting her know what's really going on.