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Originally Posted by Shazerac
My opinion is you have every right to a say in who lives in your home. Especially an adult child who obviously has problems. Worring that your husband will just drink and smoke pot with her is a big red flag  then you will have 2 adults living in your home who are acting like children. |
Yes I SHOULD have a right to say who lives there seeing as how I pay 95% of the bills and pretty much all the mortgage because he can't afford to help most months. Yeah that's another thing. Lets bring in another person who can't help with bills! But if I tell him I don't want to have her here I sound selfish and mean and I'm a horrible person in his eyes. He thinks he has every right to have her live with us for as long as she wants. As I said, he's not a parent to her. Lets her drink and smoke.
Is she all of a sudden going to blossom with all this confidence and have a go-getter attitude because she's away from her mom and living with her "fun" dad? And it doesn't take much for him to get under her skin. If he touches her too much she slaps and yells at him and one time they argued at the top of their lungs for so long that the neighbors called the cops to check on us. I don't need that drama in my house.