Ex-t admitted that when she started, she utilized her "therapist voice." It was completely fake and contrived and she hated hearing playback of it. She changed it up, reverting back to her regular self. Do I know her? Not really. Not at all, when I think about it
Last therapist admitted you shouldn't know your t at all. He said this does lead to clients fantasizing what the t is like in real life, but that it's all conjecture and the fantasy is usually better than the reality.
It's their job. It's a role. People are much different at home vs work. We're all like that.
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