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What is life going to be like after your divorce? Only you can answer that one. I can tell you how I have felt and feel. It is a loss. Like the loss of a loved one, only they are still alive and for some reason they dont like you anymore. I was married for 10 years.

Its been a little over a year now and it still hurts. I am still sad at times and miss the good moments we shared and our pets. (I did'nt get visitation rights).

I think mourning is a good thing as long as its not long term. For you, at least it was not a long period of time. Good luck think good thoughts and be good to yourself.

Joe

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I agree with Joe, life is going to be however you make it, the pain will be there for quite awhile, as far as getting out and meeting people, you will know when its the right time for that. give yourself time to pick yourself up and rebuild your heart. I am so very sorry for your pain. I know how bad it hurts.